Navigating the current political climate is daunting, discouraging and for many, defeating. The mass of chaotic issues that continue to present themselves at the forefront of the media paints a dismal picture for the vast majority of us in the US. In the video below I would like to explore both the practical dimension of what is happening, but also take a leap of faith into the higher level meaning which we can use right here, right now: to regain our power, our healing and our wholeness.
For those in the US remember to get out and VOTE November 6th! Let's show up in record numbers~
How we speak about, and to, one another greatly impacts our relationships. Love is not exactly what they showed us through Disney or Love movies. Those depictions have left us trapped in a unhealthy attachments and power struggles. These romanticized false templates for love have created deficiency in our self-identity and self-worth and a tendency for co-dependent relationships. Here, I would like to provide some tools in re-writing this language, to help you set yourself free. It begins in how we speak.
Full post here: What do you think Love should sound like when we speak to one another? Very few of us have ever heard true expressions of Love. Instead most of us have only heard romanticized confessions of possession "I'm yours forever", attachment "I'll never let you go", manipulation "I could never live without you", and false promises "You're the only one I'll ever love" all dressed up as our idealized template for love. Can you see the dark web underlying these expressions? This has really done a number on us. I'd like to provide some alternatives.
We do not belong to another, nor another to us. This concept has damaged people and relationships for centuries. Real Love would say, "I belong to myself, and you to yourself. In our individual wholeness I do not come from a place of lack or seeking fulfillment. I come from a place that knows I am already overflowing with Love and happiness and I choose to share this with you."
Possession is rooted in ego along with attachment. We should always be free to come and go. Real Love would never stifle that freedom. It would say, "I Love you in freedom, with no projections, no expectations, no games or conditions, I Love and accept the free being that you are in the fullest expression of your truth, in your own space and your own time."
Real Love loves ourself first and in that can say, "I am living a rich full life and do not look to you for validation, acceptance, or to fill in any gap I have not already filled. I welcome all that you are for who you are, and anything you share is celebrated in my heart." There are no barriers in this. This is open-ended and creates trust.
Love is inevitably shared with many others throughout our life, be conscious of how that Love is expressed. Change your language, change your Love. Real Love doesn't sound like a movie, it says: I Love you without condition. I see the sacred being that you are. I honor and respect you, as I honor and respect myself. I extend compassion to you as I do to myself. I hear you, I feel you, we are connected. I hold you in my light. In this place of Love, you are free and you are home.
~Lisa Falcon G, author of The Self Beyond and Universal Hidden Insight
Change yourself, change the world.
This is one you don't want to miss! Author, researcher, and spiritual activist Lisa Falcon G discusses our deeper soul purpose, our real job, and the little chances to make a big difference. This is the spiritual revolution <3
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Everything happens for a reason, but sometimes it is hard to see. Listen in on finding the reason and staying positive, my newest video with some awesome inspiration for your weekend and your life. Shout out to Wheel of Life magazine and the amazing team that put out a truly beautiful first issue, and many more to come. Check them out on facebook, subscribe for discounts, and don't forget to grab a copy of The Self Beyond on Amazon now.
Lisa Falcon G on giving the best of yourself (and what that means), some encouragement for the current intense energies and insight to provide navigational assistance, plus a BONUS book reading just for you. Congratulations to the winner of a FREE copy of the new book The Self Beyond on Facebook~
Self-care is essential for a balanced life, setting boundaries is key to protecting your own sacred space and honoring yourself, integration is about accepting all sides of yourself; the good, the bad, and the ugly, without rejection or judgment. Learn more in my new video, as well as in my newest book The Self Beyond (available in the UHI books tab above.)
~Love yourself first then extend that love outward.
Pain is not a punishment, it is a messenger. There is something for us to learn about ourselves and heal more deeply. More in this video on healing by hearing the message, listening beyond ourselves to hear the pain of others across the world, and what we can do right now to make a difference, and an amazing deal going on today.
PLEASE EXCUSE THE AWFUL STILL SHOT ON THIS VIDEO (you can't select the one they use). I promise this is a video worth watching and made with MUCH LOVE.~
Getting deeper with some more info on this amazing book and details on the promo! Please do check this out and make sure to like and share (through my facebook page- which is public) for a chance to win a FREE first edition copy. Or check out the UHI books tab to order yours today if you can't wait for the 2/14/18 drawing! Love to all: one book can change your life, and one life can change the world.